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Happy Halloween!

My very first post for Vida Viva, “The Crafty Mom”, is all about how although I am an artist, I am disappointingly untalented at crafts.  So you can imagine my excitement when I finally found my inner craftiness and made Owen his first homemade Halloween costume.  Punk rocker.

Most of  the costume was easy.  The t-shirt I just ripped some holes in and used fabric paint to paint an anarchy sign.  I was originally going to write “The Clash” but I thought that was kind of cheesy.  I thought the anarchy sign was more authentic and therefore hysterical.  More later on why I should have gone with cheesy.

The guitar was more work, but by far the best part of the costume.  I drew it on cardboard, applied a few layers of gesso, painted it with red and black acrylics,  and then cut it out with an exacto knife. I needed Tom to draw the strings with a gold paint pen, because even with a straight edge, I cannot draw a straight line.  I’m not sure what learning disability that qualifies me for, but it is no joke.  I even put my friend Veronica to work that night because the cardboard box  was taking FOREVER to cut through, so she did some of the cutting.  It was a group effort.  But when we were done, we were giddy anticipating how amazing Owen would look at the Embassy Halloween party Friday.

I glued a checkered ribbon to the guitar to act as a strap so he could wear it on his back, and thought he wouldn’t even notice it once it was on.  Minutes before the party I put him in his shirt and camoflauge pants and spiked up his hair.  He seriously did not want to wear the guitar.  Ok, I thought. When we get to the Embassy to trick or treat around the offices he will be distracted and he will let me put it on him.

We got to the Embassy. Again, he wanted nothing to do with it. I carried it around sort of next to him so people would “get” the costume, but I still got a few “oh he’s an anarchist…?” remarks that made me want to hide under a rock. After all my hard work, he had a costume that made no sense.  Not to mention Owen was too little to understand the trick or treating thing and only wanted to play with the elevator.  I called Tom at his office  in tears and we went home.

When we got there, our housekeeper was just leaving.  I drove her to her metro stop, and when I got back, I was greeted by Owen, wearing his guitar.  I nearly dropped dead. While I was away, Tom had somehow gotten Owen to wear the guitar to take the pictures I had wanted so badly.  Now, lets be honest.  This involved some tears.  But eventually, he wore the guitar and forgot he had it on….only to take it off  fifteen minutes later.

It’s too bad that the party ended up being such a disappointment.   But my day was saved  when I came home to see that my husband had gone through a battle of the wills with our son to take the pictures, and even a video.  That’s love.  Besides, if Owen wants to be a rock star anytime in the next few years, I have a guitar waiting for him.

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The first time it happened by accident.  Owen was playing with one of those peek-a-boo flap books, and he ripped a child peeking behind a plant clean out of the book.  I thought, that’s a shame, and I taped it up over his coat hooks.  It looked pretty cute.  Before I knew what I was doing I was taping a post card with a picture of a giraffe right next to it. And it looked just perfect.

Later that night I was looking at Owen’s sleeping  nook, the little square alcove in his room that holds his crib, covered by glow in the dark stars. In between that, and his large wooden closet doors, is an odd strip of white wall.  I taped up a photo from our honeymoon in Thailand.  And then I got my idea.  The Nature Zip.  Parents go crazy with all kinds of decorating ideas and murals, many of which I have entertained.  But lets face it.  We are here temporarily.  Painting a giant tree over his crib doesn’t quite seem worth it. But a nature collage on a skinny “zip” of wall, this I can do.

The original idea was to cover the entire area, from floor to ceiling.  Unfortunately, I had to let this go when I realized that Owen enjoys peeling the photos off the wall as much as we both enjoy viewing them from the rocking chair.

Still, the little man seems quite fond of it.

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Here it is, your Monday Morning Pick me up.  A rich color scheme of orange, brown, and blue, that pervaded the photographs taken of our Sunday morning spent in the Embassy playground with our friends and their dogs.

Though these images were taken here, in Caracas, Venezuela, the colors make me think of the American South West….

Caracas is a difficult post, but getting together with other members of the Embassy community helps a lot.  Especially those with dogs and/or babies!  Look how happy they are! Although Charlie was MIA the moment the photo was taken, rest assured he was off being traviesito somewhere close by.

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…And so, our outdoor photo shoot (so to speak) in the morning inspired an indoor photo shoot of the same color scheme in the afternoon.  Here I am cleaning off our young model after a pre photo shoot oreo.

Orange tee-shirt by Penguin.  Rug by Dwell Studio for Target Kids….or something like that.  Adorable blue knit teddy bear by Baby Gap.  Modeled by Kate and Owen Laufert, of Vida Viva

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And so, the story of my never ending painting continues.  This was my state of progress yesterday morning.  I vowed to finish it that same day, once and for all.  And my little men vowed to do all they could to help/distract me.   One of the little men was particularly distracting (one clue, the little man with less fur) as his first molar is making it’s first appearance.  Mi hombre comelon didn’t even want to eat!

The evening ended very strangely indeed, with a highly anticipated aguacero, and Owen insisting on being sent to bed without supper.

Yet more curious than all of this, was the smell.  At first I thought I must be imagining it.  But my husband assured me it was quite real.  “This country is on fire” he said, “that’s the smell of the rain putting it out”.

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I was woken up AGAIN at 5:00 this morning, but to a seemingly more happy Owen, who eventually ate his breakfast.

…And possibly, we have come to the end of The Never Ending Painting.  At least, I think so.  I’ll probably touch it up here and there over the weekend.  But it’s looking pretty done to me.  What do you think?

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The Crafty Mom

I like to call myself a painter, rather than an artist. There are musicians who can pick up any instrument, and then there are those who have a passion and ability for one instrument only. This is me. I used to draw, but now it seems I can only paint. And I only want to. I love paint because it is liquid and flexible. I can mix it, thin it, layer it, manipulate it however I please. In my first months as a new mother, when I had no time for anything other than Owen, I would think of the physical sensations of painting, and crave them like chocolate.

After a brief and frustrating stint with mixed media in Bogota, I accepted for good that I am simply a one media kind of woman.

And then, we had Owen. Now I am filled with desires to be that perfect adorable crafty mom. To knit toys and scrapbook and decorate. I bought a load of scrapbooking material, and since I’ve saved everything from our first dates onward, I will someday sit down and make that family scrapbook and it will be beautiful damn it.

I drove myself crazy for Owen’s first birthday, which we celebrated in February. I chose a puppy theme, and I wanted it to be perfect. The big show stopper, of course, was going to be the puppy cake. I found a photo online that was both cute and seemingly easy to copy. All I can say is thank God my mother was there, and Devorah, our housekeeper’s daughter. I was too anxious about every aspect of the party from the caterer (who was late) to the goody bags to even think straight. In the end, it was a joint effort. But I have to admit, that thirteen year old kicks my ass in cake decorating.

Devorah kept saying what a shame it was that we would have to cut up our little work of art. But hey, cake is for eating. And I think someone inherited my sweet tooth.

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